Sunday, August 12, 2012

Focus on the Family Community: Relationships and Marriage: How ...

My husband and I have been married 33 years as of last Saturday, 8/4.? Just 5 days earlier I learned he is involved in an emotional affair.......again.? He was involved in one about 9 1/2 years ago, but wanted to make our marriage work.? He broke all contact with this woman, and it was a slow and painful process but we survived.? Or so I thought.? Now I find out he involved in another one, and he does not want to break contact at all with this woman.? He says he is in love with her and she is in love with him.? This is an internet relationship.? They have not met in person.? They met through a game on Facebook.? I am so hurt.? I want to save our marriage.? After the last time, he arranged for us to renew our vows and we signed the marriage covenant.? Now he says he's not happy.? I know I haven't been the wife he needs.? I told him our marraige is a covenant and God did not want us to break it.? He has agreed to go to counseling at least for one time, and he said he will give us 2 - 3 months to see how it goes.? He also told me he wouldn't contact this woman during that time.? That lasted 1 day.? He has been in constant contact with her.? I don't know what to do!? My heart is breaking.? We have only told a couple of people about this.? The last time no one else knew about it either other than a couple of our pastors.? We both come from strong Christian backgrounds, and have been involved with our church, choir, and small groups.? I know this is spiritual warfare!? At this moment I feel like I can't go on.? He is out of town this weekend and when I woke up this morning, I thought what do I have to get up for?? I feel so alone.? I've been crying and praying and reading scripture but feel like I'm drowning.? Please pray for me and our marriage!? I know God does not want it to end.? I need wisdom and knowledge.

Source: http://www.focusonlinecommunities.com/thread/24861

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